Well thought I would give yall an update. I found out she was cheating with a black man from work. We went through counseling for several months. The counselor was seeing both of us together and separate. We got to the point that the counselor told us we didnt need to see her any more, and it would give her time to work on her. Well that was in April of 07. Fast forward to our family vacation in June. All day at the beach she was acting funny. Finally caught her making out with some drunken jerk in the ocean. Told her I was done. I give up. She moved out August first. Took her kids from her first marriage and didnt even tell our son she was moving. Left him with me. Move forward a month she is dating a married man. My house is being foreclosed on. I cant keep up with all the bills she left me with. Married guys wife catches them together and beats the hell out of her while he just watched. So of course she comes running to me. Knowing the Im about to lose the house she offers to let me move in with her. We go out to dinner for our anniversary on October 16th. She led me on believing we were getting back together. Well what a bunch of bs that was. She went out on a date the next day. I moved out in December with my son. It took me that long to gget the money together to get out. Well after 3 weeks of dating him I heard how she never loved any one like him..that she finally knows what it is to love someone. What a bunch of crap. Fast forward to now. He basically moved in the day after I moved out. He is a coward. I ran into them the other day lpicking my son up after school and he wouldnt get out of the car till I left and sat on his phone with my wife... My wife is completely off her rocker. My counselor and I both believe she is BPD. Borderline Personality Disorder.. My son is in counseling with Abandonment issues and living with me full time. I filed in september and she never filed a response. She will not go to mediation. She will not go to the child of divorce class. So I am kinda stuck right now in limbo. I have paid my lawyer over 3 grand and am still married to a @@@##@#$#$#$#..... She does very little to support our son, adn I have not been able to estab lish custody in court or child support,.
So for all of you out there wondering what the hell is wrong with you... Your the sane one... Stop Walking on Eggshells is the best book I have read so far to help me understand my ex. Thanks for listening.
Honesty, sincerity, tenderness and trust. A little less time for the rest of the world, And more for the two of us. Kisses each mornin, I love yous at night, Just like it used to be.
