I know his moving here says a lot. It definitely says a lot about his R with OW. I really wish he would change his phone number since it is still long distance...and then not give it to OW...maybe with time.

You are right, I think that way is a better way to approach it. I will probably see him tomorrow night so that is when I will tell him.

I went out to dinner with some friends tonight. I didn't call H today. I wanted to see how his day went and ask if they called about the other job...but I figure if they did he would have called me.

I did do our taxes tonight. I took your suggestion Michelle and it was free and pretty easy. I know H will be glad to know he is getting money back. I did tell him I would help him with his car payment and rent until he gets on his feet. I don't know if that was correct DB'ing or not, but I can't stand to see him struggle. Plus the car is in both of our names and I don't want my credit ruined. If worse comes to worse he may have to sell it. Not sure if I have mentioned this on this thread or not, but we still have a house in TX. It has been on the market since September and I am getting frustrated with it. We have talked about renting it out, but I kind of want to hold out as long as I can on that. Anyway, hopefully everything will work out with it.


Kris