When we fisrt started going out it was on and off and on and off. He didn't want to date me because his exact words: 1. I have a child 2. I have tattoos 3. I have short hair 4. I am older than him by 1 year (all previous girlfriends were in early twenties and we are in our late thirties) 5. I smoked.
So finally I was fed up with the back and forth and starting dating a super great man. I mean really great. I didn't have time for my husbands antics and told him he can be my friend but nothing more and I meant nothing more. So we puttereed along for about 6 months but I really didn't have time for him because I was really starting to like this man. Lo and behold he shows up one night knocking on my window after midnight declaring his love and what not and I told him to go home that he had his chance. He proceeded to email this man, stalk him, showing up at my house in the parking lot when my boyfriend would leave and he would call him and told him about how much he wanted to be with me and how much we meant to each other. Had the man so rattled and had his feelings hurt so bad that he eventually left after 2 weeks of non stop barrage from my husband. So we decided to give it 100% and we ended up getting married a bit later and it was great. Bumps here and there but over all really nice until his new position about now almost 2 years ago. Down hill like a comet since then. Oh yea I did quit smoking as soon as we got engaged because of his "allergies" and well I really feel good about myself not smoking so that was a good thing.
My husband told me a several times that he never had an argument with another woman. That he grew up not seeing his parents ever argue. Never and if a woman argued with him he would toss her out the door and stop dating her. He says I am the only woman he ever let "push his button", the only woman he ever loved and hated so much at the same time and I am the only women he ever argued with and kept him coming back for more. So I really don't understand him....
