In reading your sitch, to me (IMHO) it sounds like your H has some serious control issues. He seems to be the type that wants complete dominance over every situation. Did you see any of this behavior before you were married?
I was thinking the same thing... in fact I was honestly wondering how you ever even ended up GETTING married given your description. It really sounds like he never actually wanted to be married to begin with. What do you think??
I agree to keep taking care of you - do what makes you happy, calm, content.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread