I also hate that she has to be a product of a broken family. My parents are celebrating 45 years of marriage this month... That's where I come from. This is just wrong to me... But, not up to me at this point.. So, I have to live with it, cope with it, and move on..
I totally understand. Totally. Its not fair. And its not up to me either. Our kids will have to explain to their friends. My parents were happily married for over 20 years before my father died. I am from a happy family as well. H is from (big surprise) a nasty divorce. His parents lived together for 10 years AFTER their divorce to raise the 7 kids. And it wasn't a good environment, they just couldn't afford 2 homes. Wow.