WAH makes contact approx every 5 days to a week with my youngest daughter. Less with my middle daughter and hasnt at all with my oldest since she went back to school in FL. Over Christmas he saw/talked to her once. He contacts girls by cell..usually a text and will ask to see them. My middle "passes" on it, my youngest will hang with him for a bit but it is always awkward. We call it the "uncle you see once a yr at Christmas visit"
it goes like this..."sooo hows school? what grade you in again? any boyfriends? Soooo hows that sport going your playing???? what is it again??? Basketball? Oh wait soccer oh yeah soccer...hows that working out for ya? well it was nice talking to ya..we will have to do it again sometime"
yup thats about what they get now...this from he guy that used to sit for hours and teach them about life, birds and bees, boys you name it. He was an awesome dad.
Me? he contacts me as little as possible maybe once every 10 days to 2 weeks and always by text. It was more often before I confronted him regarding OW but now I know he just cant look at me ...fear? guilt? both?. I just leave him alone and give him the space. IF he does stop over he will have my youngest just run out to car so he doesnt even have to come in house..its just too much emotional baggage for him right now.
My friend told me last night "no way could I put up with what you are doing"
I just told her " well I know the person he WAS and I owe it to him and my girls to wait for him to come back"
Sorry to dissapointe you Jeff!!!! LOL
M 44 H 44 M 22 yrs D 20 D 16 D 13 Bomb 1 8/25/07 Bomb 2 9/30/07 Left 10/01/07 OW..yup
Me? I'm scrambling to save my family. My H is just scrambling.
