Sorry it's been a while, but I'm crazy-busy with my new course.
Oh, Owen. You do know we have THREE cats? Two are 11, the other was a stray we adopted 3 years ago. They rather ARE our kids, so my sincere sympathies on your loss.
Sage, you continue to show such marvelous insight, please give yourself a break! How can you be the "unchosen" when he's chosen to be with YOU????