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Sending warm thoughts and positive vibes your way!

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Hey jak..

Sorry I havent posted to you in awhile.. am thinking of you.

I think a getaway would be great for the two of you... It may just take him out of his slump!

can you believe this weather.. its craziness!! we got ice and ran yesterday.. now its all frozen and nasty out!

Have a great valentines day!!


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TAL,

Hope things have been well with you.
Read on your thread that you got your hair cut differently. Doesn't it empower you. NOW if you get your TAT then that wil be something way different!!!

Had a very good Valentines day. H had flowers sent to work and took me out to dinner then we went home and ate dessert(not that I needed it) and had a good time. I do think he is getting coser to the end of his crap so I will not rock the boat by asking or stating anything right now.

I havn't been on as much as things have been so hectic but, have been reading.

Hope everyone had a good day yesterday and today.

JAK


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hey jak, sounds like a good day overall. And yes, you needed AND deserved dessert. \:\) \:\)

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Jak - sounds like a wonderful Valentine's day, so glad to hear it!

It really does seem like you may be getting closer to stable ground with your H - I sure hope so.


Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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Hey jak...

glad you had a nice night out. Hopefully things will continue on the upswing.. I never like to get my hopes up.. I guess its because we fall hard when things get rough.

Disney trip is around the corner.. hoping we can connect on a different level there. the only level my H knows is a sex level..:)


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Don't most guys.

It's almost a no brainer to figure out there love language. But thats not a bad thing as long as you know what there LL is and that they take care of your LL too.

Hve fun at Disney. Haven't been there since the kids were younger. Now maybe some day we'll take the grandkids.

JAK


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Hey, jak, hope you have had a good day, today!!

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Not a good day.

We had over three feet of snow and H was working soooo guess who cleaned out. I know H appreciated it though. It usually takes me 10 to 15 minutes to get to work and it took me over an hour and I was one of three that showed everyone else called in, including those who lived right in town. there were ccars and trucks off everywhere and interstate was closed down.
Don't think i'll do that again.
today is much better so far the sun is out.

JAK


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Hope you are home, and tucked in!!!

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