Walk Away Fiancee

[nate75]

Thanks to all for your feedback...it really helps me out on the rough days.

I have been working on myself. I have continued going to therapy and have begun to entertain the possibility that Amy may have had a drinking problem. In light of this I attended my first Al-Anon meeting last night.

I also want to work on why this relationship ended like my last relationship...sudden and quick. It makes me feel like I am more responsible that I probably am.

I am also taking ownership for the fact that I have codependent tendencies and have begun reading the book Codependent No More.

I received "the bomb" 15 days ago and I have been strong and not initiated contact with Amy once. Unfortunately, she has refused to do the same (except for "business" emails). I know that I must continue to remain strong and not initiate contact with her. That has to come from within her.

Nate