I'm sorry. I missed something somewhere. You here for help, or to straighten the rest out? Just kidding.

Truth is you have handled all this horror as if you had already been here years and gotten the degree. Great for you and the kids to have so much support. If you read as much as it sounds, you already know that kind of support for the horrible LBS is rare indeed. It will help you and the kids survive all this. yur positive thoughts toward H will also help pave the way for his return when he wakes up, and he will.

Nothing like that EVER stays secret in the workplace long and it will likely end up costing them both their jobs when it comes out.

Sorry to see another newcomer in MLC forum, but thank God you have such a great handle on this already. You will be teaching folks how to hold it together by your example. Good luck.