Thanks Sage.
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did h. finding out that you had talked to friends make him backpedal on working on stuff? the end of your post sounded confusing...



Yes, it had him backpeddling. And saying more stuff that left me feeling battered emotionally.

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I guess you think that it is something that h wouldn't agree with? because it involves other people or because of db'ing in general?

Posting on the board involves other people. I hate to lose the support as well. Actually, during the month of DBing H said that it looked like I pretended thgs were okay. H said maybe he needed to hear ILY and other stuff.

I will still support you. I have learned so much from your experience. I'm not sure if H knows of BB, but H has said thgs that give me pause.

OW, H said that there is nothing to end. Only online chat, but owed ending to OW. I agreed. yes it was a relief for EA only.

No reason except I chgd and H wanted to know what I was doing or chkg on him. Yes, H said it ended. I had quit snooping, but had 1 slip recently.

I'm just confused right now. I still plan on working on me. I'll be watching for you.