I would suggest mentioning it to your H or even asking if it would bother him. If you don't, your secrecy runs the risk of making it look like something was/is going on. Your H's perceptions and feelings are the most important part of this as far as DBing goes. However, if you keep things fairly transparent and make sure your H is okay with it...I can't see an issue.

Personally, I don't see it as being a problem if handled right. I have a lot of male co-workers and platonic friends, so I find it perfectly normal. I know other people are much more conservative about opposite-sex friendships though.


Michelle - Proud DR Rockette
S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09
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