Hi Sage, Just checked in. Keep me posted on you cat. I understand your decision on the C vs cat.
Sage, wanted to let you know, I'm not sure about posting on my thread right now. I'm paranoid H knows about the board. I did have an enlightening weekend. Everythg came out about OW. H hired a priv investigator to monitor me. He found my snooping, which was how I discovered OW, and which I quit after starting this DB. Yes I had a few slips. I snooped in the car. H had put a camera in car and knew. At the end of our discussion we were going to work on M.
Last night, H said all day he was thinkg and he cant believe I assumed he had an affair. I said that I only knew it was an EA online, but that I didn't know for sure if it was a PA. He still can't believe I thought this. H knows the boundaries, etc. My crime is that H heard a rumar that day, I said he was having an affair, so obviously one of my friends is talking. H asks why I want to work on M if I believe this? and more.
I feel so stupid, I talked to a few close friends. Now I'm in trouble. I don't know what to do anymore? I'm afraid to talk anymore. I just keep getting in trouble. I don't know where I stand now with H.
Good Luck on your sitch. I will still monitor because I care what happens for you.
