I have been working on some changes I knew I had made when we were married. I used to have really short hair and LOVED it! But he "liked long hair, was attracted to long hair, thought I looked "butch" with short hair." So I grew it out. But all the time I am thinking you met me with short hair you fell in love with me with short hair...now you hate it??? So inside of me I hated it everyday because it looked awful. And to top it off he never touched it. No petting no rubbing now nothing with it. So what was the point? So my hair is now back short and I feel a million and one times better!!
I gained weight while we were married. I had certain eating habits when I was single. I ate when I was hungry and generally if I wasn't I wouldn't eat. But he was always focused on food. What's for breakfast, what's for lunch, you need to eat, you can't skip a meal, why are you having just salad???? And he loved to eat out so nature took its course and I gained about 40 pounds. And felt miserable. Either I ate and he was happy I was eating or upset because I was fat/or don't eat and listen to him complain about me setting a bad example for my daughter and you'll make yourself sick. Now the 40 lbs is gone and I feel good about myself again!!
