Sage, It's okay to rant on the BB, especially if it helps with the PMA in handling responses to H.
I'm sorry about your cat. This is extremely difficult to handle at the end. I went through this several yrs ago with my previous cat. I still get emotional thinkg about her. She was 19yrs old.
Wanted to let you know that I checked in. I definitely have learned alot this weekend and your thoughts on insecurities and controlling issues may apply to me. I don't have much to offer in advice today becuase I'm in thinking mode myself.
Good Luck with your C tonight. I hope you gain some understanding on how to deal with the anger. Hopefully you will share.
I'll check back. Sorry for no enlightening words, but I also agree with Jim. You should look at the glass as half-full, not half-empty. That may change your perceptions of the sitch.
