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Originally Posted By: SueS
I told him that I thought maybe someone had been at our place. He told me that it wouldn't make a difference what he told me, as I wouldn't believe him anyway. I just said, H, that's not true....however, I will tell you that I do not want anyone that I do not know or OW to ever step foot in my home. Things relaxed after that.


Ewwwww do you really think she was there looking through your stuff? Maybe it was your H looking through things? Hey, maybe you need to leave some romantic poetry in your nighties and sign it with some intial (like some guy gave it to you!).


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Hi Joie, lwb & ROOT- It's nice to be back.

ROOT- I don't think anyone was looking through my stuff. What I think is that he cleaned up my "intimates" that were in plain sight so they wouldn't be seen by anyone. There were other clothes sitting around but those weren't moved. I would imagine that the intimates would give the impression that he actually still has intimacy with his wife......God forbid anyone think that. Who knows!! I could be off base. He could have done it to throw me off. Nice idea on the poetry though.

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Nice to see you back Sue.

I'm sorry that you are in the position where you are able to think your H may have had someone there. Even though that probably isn't the case, the fact that you are in a place where those thoughts exist is hurtful.


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Its nice to have you back sue \:\)

Glad you had a good time away, I think you needed it. Im sure your D missed you tons!!! they are great aren't they!

You are stronger, and i think that whatever comes your way you will face it head on..

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Hi Sue, I agree with your C - you are doing great. Your focus is a lot stronger on you and D these days, on less on H and his sad shenanigans. Doesn't that just feel so much better?

Hang in there - remember, time and patience are your best allies. Hugs!


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(((((SUE))))
I'm glad you have your baby home with you again!




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I've found the solution to the problem! It's all in here. Read this!

Installing Your Husband...

Dear Tech Support,

Last year I upgraded from Boyfriend 5.0 to Husband 1.0 and noticed a distinct slow down in overall system performance, particularly in the flower and jewelry applications, which operated flawlessly under Boyfriend 5.0.In addition, Husband 1.0 uninstalled many other valuable programs, such as Romance 9.5 and Personal Attention 6.5 and then installed undesirable programs such as NBA 5.0, NFL 3.0 and Golf Clubs 4.1. Conversation 8.0 no longer runs, and Housecleaning 2.6 simply crashes the system. I've tried running Nagging 5.3 to fix these problems, but to no avail. What can I do?

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DEAR DESPERATE,

First keep in mind, Boyfriend 5.0 is an Entertainment Package, while Husband 1.0 is an Operating System.

Please enter command: ithoughtyoulovedme.html and try to download Tears 6.2 and don't forget to install the Guilt 3.0 update. If that application works as designed, Husband 1.0 should then automatically run the applications Jewelry 2.0 and Flowers 3.5.But remember, overuse of the above application can cause Husband 1.0 to default to Grumpy Silence 2.5, Happy Hour 7.0 or Beer 6.1. Please note that Beer 6.1 is a very bad program that will download the Snoring Loudly Beta. Whatever you do, DO NOT install Mother-In-Law 1.0 (it runs a virus in the background that will eventually seize control of all your system resources.) Also do not attempt to reinstall Boyfriend 5.0 program. These are unsupported applications and will crash Husband 1.0. In summary, Husband 1.0 is a great program, but it does have limited memory and cannot learn new applications quickly. You might consider buying additional software to improve memory and performance. We recommend Cooking 3.0 and Hot Lingerie 7.7.

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Hi everyone-

Thanks for the welcome back greetings! Oh I just love having D3 home now. She has been testing my boundaries, but also giving me lots of "I Love You Mommy".

Some Journaling.....
A bit quiet at home last night. Spoke briefly with H yesterday and he said that he'd be off by 6:30. I called him at 7:30 because I'd made dinner. He called back at 7:40 saying he'd stopped off for a beer when he got off work. The H that had been nice to me has seemed to back off a bit the past few days. He's colder now. Not unexpected but a bit of a bummer, of course. I didn't mention H putting up some pictures on the walls the other day. I know they can come down easily but I find things like this strange when an S (any of ours) makes changes in the home they want to leave. LWB, your H comes to mind with the mirror and the tv.???

Busy day at work, which is great for me. Keeps my mind occupied and on track. Our company has a national meeting each year and I'm our state's contact so I've been working on all the travel arrangements & registration for our folks. It's a challenge but I love the fact that I'm the one person that gets about 55 people all set up to travel to/from Orlando each year for the meeting. I don't think people have any idea the work that goes into it, but that's okay. I enjoy it.

Just about 1/2 hour before I pick up D3. Can't wait to hug her and kiss that soft little cheek!

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Sara-

I LOVE IT!! Wouldn't it be great if all you had to do was reinstall some programs?? I'd do it in an instant!!

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I thought hot lingerie 7.7 was what Sara swore by!!!!!! \:D


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H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength
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