Hi Dar...Sounds like you are taking a beating on your thread, not so much a 2x4 as a jackhammer! I agree generally though, girl, you need to toughen up !!! If anyone (not even my BF) got angry and said Fing this that and the other to me..I would politely say, I cant talk to you if you're angry, I'd be happy to talk when you are less angry. Or something ! You need to put up boundaries...he left you remember.
I know you must yearn for contact or seeing him and I cant imagine how hard it is to be in this sitch, with a D as well. But...I definetly think it was a mistake to invite him to a parent SOCIAL evening. Thats not really appropriate and you didnt really think he would come and be able to hang out, and go to the bar and do bowling or whatever else? Maybe thats not realistic considering his frame of mind right now! Be strong...wait for him to extend invitations to you..if you are nice and kind, but with respect for yourself... well, he may garner more respect for you and stop f-ing and blinding at you ! (I gave nothing away to my BF..he would say "hope you're ok" and I wouldnt answer, as it is not a question, so doesnt deserve a reply from me)
Shame about the parents, but thats a bit sad at his age, going back home. Hopefully he will realise this and realise he needs to get a handle on himself! At least he is telling you his plans. I know you are a little jealous at the contact I am having with my BF..but did you know...I dont even know where hes living !!!! He wont tell me. So thats not so great !
Sounds like you need to pull back a little (a lot??)
