Thanks everyone for all your good advice and support! I am so glad I am doing this play! I am really sore, and am so busy, but realized when I went home the other night I was almost dreading seeing H and his whole drama and divorce talk and almost constant reminders that he is in love with OW. It is getting old for me.
Yesterday he was complaining about us (the kids or I) leaving a light on in the bathroom and no one was in there (it could have even been him of course!) he is so cheap with us. Later that day, I got a credit card bill in the mail and found out he had charged a $96 hotel room on his weekend trip with OW, and he just paid $266 for a gym membership for OW (his is deducted monthly from another card). I am feeling disgusted by him right now. I haven't said anything or don't plan to, just keeping the records for the attorney when he tries to claim we don't have the money for homeschooling. (Cause he is spending the money on OW!) If he moves out at some point soon or files the divorce papers, he is definitely making it easier for me I think. I am still mildly DB'ing, but now acting more detached b/c I am caring a little less right now about him. I am thinking he is such a jerk lately, it is hard to care as much as I once did. I am now doing it more for the kids and I don't even know why; I guess because he was a good husband for a long time before this past 2 years. I'm doing it for that guy. Karen43
