Check out "Not Just Friends" by Dr. Shirley P. Glass. It was recommended to me by another DBer just yesterday, and I'm already finding it to be VERY helpful and informative towards (as the book states) "Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity". It discusses things such as obsessive and intrusive thoughts that both partners endure and gives ways to cope with them. I'm not done reading yet, but as I said, so far it's really wonderful.
Take care.
Last edited by GoingForward; 02/20/0807:12 PM.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
