Retro is supposed to help you connect w/your S, and perhaps if your H learns to connect w/you he wouldnt' be looking to have his ego stroked by other women, would realize that he doesn't need to go elsewhere for that feel good feeling. Hope he sees this eventually :P
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.