Caz -- Thanks so much for your continued support. I see so many similarities in our sitchs...and you have been an inspiration to me through your strength and grace. I'm glad to hear that you've found some help from me, too.
When I read your posts, I do get the sense that your H. is struggling with needing some things that he feels as though he doesn't have. I have high hopes for you that he will see that you two can build those things together...the fact that he is talking with you about what he is seeking is a wonderful thing.
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.