Quoting lostlove:

some people will read books, write letters, send flowers, be up your but "trying" to fix things...others just take it slowly with actions...they are there if you look.

LL


LL -- You are absolutely right. H is an action guy -- I think that's one of the places we've been stuck -- I'm focused on words (so I talk alot but don't do the actions necessarily?) whereas he's the opposite. To be fair, actually, I think that H "says" quite a bit in words...I'm just not always open to hearing them.

For example, last night he said so earnestly and lovingly "I love watching movies with you" (we were hanging out watching another flick! Holding hands!). It wasn't "I'm so sorry for everything that's happened, that I've said. I'm recommitted to working on our M. I'll never leave" but it sure was "I'm here now. I love spending time with you, sharing things together and holding hands." Least that's what I heard!

Sage

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.