Hi grace!

The conflict-avoider thing is interesting.

On one hand, I would say since my H is an attorney, and a trial attorney at that, that he is not a conflict avoider.

He also has fun with creating conflict is his happy friendly pre-mlc self (fun little verbal jabs at friends and family, trying to get a rise out of friends and family be being irritating, etc.). He does still do this "fun" conflict stuff with the kids and his friends, but not with me.

HOWEVER when it comes to serious non-work or emotional issues, he does seem to be a conflict avoider.

Since that last category is where the mlc situation lies, it does support my feeling that if my H leaves the house, it will be very difficult for him to come back even if he figures out that is what he wants to do.

I hope your week is going well! Happy hump day (he he he!).


Nature Girl
M 40
H 40
M 15, T 19
D11 S9
bomb 3/07 (MOW)