Do you really feel your H has one foot out the door? 'Cause I don't get that sense from your posts at ALL!
Is it because he hasn't said in words that he wants to be with you...make things work...is committed to this?
IS there anything he could say that would ease your mind? Or IS this really something in YOU that you need to work on?
I don't know the answer, perhaps its a combination of both. Great advice above, I won't dare try to better it!
Shiny
P.S. Love, love love Six Feet Under...think we missed it this week, although it usually shows 2X...last one I saw was when Ruth kept kissing the geeky employee.