So yesterday we made plans for me to stay for dinner and a movie on Weds when he comes to stay with the kids. Then I remembered that I had already made plans for Weds evening, told him I didn't know which one I'd cancel. He suggested that I go out on Weds and then stay for dinner on Thursday instead. Told him that I worked until 7pm, but I'd come by afterwards, hang with the kids a bit, put them to bed and then a movie. Felt good to choose to go out with others instead of staying here and that I had plans for the next night, too. One thing that my hubby really liked about me when we were dating was my cooking skills. We just got a new wall oven and part of it is convection. I'm surprising him with a roasted chicken when he comes tonight. I really want to use the new convection oven and see how well it works, that's the main reason. Yet also thought that it would be a nice touch, he walks into the house smelling wonderful and all homey, a yummy meal because of me but then I leave because I have a life. I get to cook but don't have to clean up! win win


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.