Hi Michelle..I'm sorry you had such a disappointing discourse with your H on IM! It sounded a bit...like he was fed up, or something, he didnt sound that happy? Its hard to tell, but you are right, whereas you sounded upbeat, he kept referring to taxes and evading any real conversation between you. Perhaps he still feels guilty and finds it hard to speak with you? Is this not his typical way of conversing with you,before he met the OW?
At least he relented and agreed to the refile, which is good. Shame that he mentioned the dissolition settlement, I guess thats to do with the D is it? This must be hard for you..