New and alone

[addie]

Jen,
It's a good sign H spent the night there. It's extremely difficult to avoid questioning/ pursuing behaviour when he's right there.
I find I have to really psych myself up for it beforehand. There's a list of Do's and Dont's on these threads from DR. I've printed up a copy for myself, have read and reread that list over and over. Of course, I've had my backslides but I try to get right back on track. It does get easier to do as you detach.

Yoga is great. Another thing I've done is a lot more cooking and baking. I've tried out new recipes which H usually ends up having when he comes over.
If you go out when H is over, be a little mysterious at times and when you get back be upbeat. I know that always gets my H thinking.