ok my wife is moving today

[Diehard]

Your sitch sounds alot like mine wife has been very confused every since she dropped the bomb 8 months ago. I know alot of her confusion stems from this so called friend she met about the same time she dropped the bomb a third party being involved always messes things up worse. But back to your sitch: I certainly feel your pain all you can do is give her space, and if you want to give this a chance to work someday focus on being her best friend. No pressure, help her with things when she asks, resist arguments or lashing out, it gives them a chance to think about what their doing instead of finding more blame in you to justify their actions. God Bless