Great to hear about the changes your W is making. It'll help your R no matter what happens with your M. I'm proud of you for taking hold of your life, making the changes necessary to become a better H and father. You will be blessed no matter what happens.
Don't know what to tell you about responding to your W's filing. My gut tells me the longer you can delay it, the greater chance you may have of it dying the slow death that it deserves. One day at a time brother, one baby step at a time.
Stay the course, love unconditionally, grow the man you are meant to be.
God Bless,
COG
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