Should I buy my STBXW a birthday card on 26th Feb?

[Where is Hope?]

I would buy her one. Either way, she may make a comment. However, being unhappy about you doing the right thing is better than being unhappy over doing the wrong thing.

I work with my estranged spouse and he didn't even acknowledge my birthday last September. The other employees did, so there's no way he forgot! It still hurts me deeply.