BT,
The impression you're giving me is that you're trying to hard to get your wife to do things. If so, you need to knock that off, methinks, because it will backfire. You can't make her do anything, and if you try, she will perceive it as controlling. MLCers hate that.

What if YOU went to MC by yourself? How would she react?

Me: 51
W: 50
M 24 yrs
EA: since Apr 06
S22, S26, S28
ILYBNILWY:Nov 07

"It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything." Tyler Durden