Wow, tal, you are amazing girl (and cute! PS: You have mail). I am going to stick out Florida with New H, and hope Old H returns for the trip. I have faith he will. I can't thank you enough. Look at this, total strangers working together to make each other happy. Amazing. I am going to email you my cell number so maybe we can meet up some place in Florida.
saffie, Thank you so much. I am in a place where I miss so many things about being a couple: the closeness, the trust, the intimacy, all of that. All of the things H has 'taken' from me. I know now that if we D, when I am ready, I will find someone to share all of those things with. H is making it easier for me to detach by his recent behaviors (I have a gut feeling he is involved with someone new), and that will be good in 2 ways: 1) I can make rational decisions IF H wakes up in time or 2) I will be better off going through the D.
And yes, OW has so many issues. I just feel she (and H of course) robbed me of so many things. I really do hope her conscience gets the best of her late at night. That being said, I am thrilled to see their family stay intact, for the sake of the kids.
