Yes, D17 has already grown tired of W's "make myself busy in my own life activities". As W was turning to the "dark side", she started doing all sorts of activities that would re-define her. Since she would try to get D17 involved in most of them, it would take on the guise of trying to get closer and involved in D17 life. Surprise, D17 loves her mom, but wants her own life. So slowly D17 is not as interested any more. D17 is too busy with her last year in high school to be involved with other "fillers".
I think W is starting to see that perhaps things aren't so bad, things that seemed glossy, really weren't. The things that seemed like what she wanted might hurt the people she loves most. Of course, I think it is becoming more clear that a friend of her's that was "blazing the WAW path", was not as happy in the end. I feel sorry for the lady, but I guess she got what she wanted.
I hope W can overcome some of her stubbornness and turn this thing around before it gets too late. It's amazing what a little humbleness and effort would do for us right now. By the way, I did get her a V-day card in which I wrote a bit of a note. Of course, she got me nothing, but has been relatively nice since. Seems to have gone over fairly well.
Selfish for my M, selfish for my family....I guess I am what I am.
