Well, we made it through our first Retro weekend. That program works miracles, it really does.
I don't have a lot of time, but we are reconciling. We are both wearing our rings. He has begun to tell me all the circumstances of the past.
I can not post with my other identity, because OW does check it regularly. I feel a little sorry for her. She is divorced and now in an "open" relationship with a man who doesn't care to be with her. She has an S9 who spends every other week with her while BF drinks and goes out with friends. For a time, she convinced my H this was how it was supposed to be.
He will be quitting his job. We are renewing our vows in August (he proposed during our weekend).
We are on the same page and are working to become a stronger unit than ever before. We have both made the CHOICE to COMMIT to do whatever it takes.
OW is already chasing him saying BS about how she's been through this, it won't work. Her son is fine and our kids will be fine too. H just has to "get over" me. She doesn't have a phone number for him, so she is tracking him down at the school (she's on vacation). He is being open about this, and we are handling it as a team.
I will share more later. I do find myself being insecure while he is at work. I hate it. I cant wait til he is out of there. However, I know that if this is for real, he will hold strong. IF he is not strong, then it would have just been a matter of time anyway.
