It's his choice to have the D though. He could/could've changed his ways if he didn't want to be broke the rest of his life. He needs to read that more than 50% of women still live at poverty level after D even with CS! THAT should make him feel good! Us woman get the brunt of it all and are supposed to feel badly for the XH?! No thank you.
I'm glad he sees you're okay with this. I think alot of men think it's pretty 'great' to see their W all upset about them. You're strong and showing him so.
I'll have to think of more D favors for sure. I think it's AWESOME your friends are doing this!
