BTW Jeannine, holy cow....what a blow to learn H is still in contact with OW! My heart is with you!
Sage, glad to hear about your foray into VC for some "extras". You know, I've learned that it always is the level of confidence and inner sexiness that matters most. As I've said, my weight has been all over the place (40lb range) and, geeze, now that I think about it, our sex life was probably best right around the upper middle of that range!
Glad H is filling your love tank with lil deposits every day. It's good that you notice and relish them!