What's this about...??

[Jeanette1120]

And how maybe I need to get a "f#ckbuddy."

Yes. She said that. Half seriously. I laughed.

So what's going on here? Is it guilt

Guilt mixed with alot of insecurities? You've said that you've not been the Golden Boy...so to me, when a statement like that is made, she's asking you if you still find her attractive and sexually appealing.

She may be on a little fishing expedition to see how you would respond to her statement.

After you laughed what did she say?

Clearly, in your case, your husband controls the money, and (looking at wife) you control the sex."

Isn't this a majority? Seriously....it shouldn't be and I would be interested to see how many out there can say they do it the opposite...like the woman controls the money and the man controls the sex.....hmmm.

I probably would have crawled under the couch.....he sounds a bit intimidating. Course the truth hurts and intimidates us in the beginning.