well got the books last night,realize i already am in last resort mode.Have been following it to a tee already!Realized small things already did change.had some health issues before this(not bad)went to doctors,monday.Wife came to pick up oldest son while i was gone.She called latter and just about begged me to tell her why i went.Very different!Anyways,thought this mourning.When this started I told her i would never take my ring off,She would have to!Thinking it might be a good idea if I do it now,for now other reason than 180i think it might really throw her when she eventualy notices.What do you think?Need a little insight Tom


Me:42 W:41 Married 22 seperated12-31-07,served papers 2-29-08 S21-S20 partialy disabled S17
Divorce sighed 10-7-08 final 90 days after