H is in such a hurry to get the D. I just wish he'd wait a little longer that way he could get the full picture of the OW. Right now it's all wine and roses for them. I wish he'd slow the D talk down. I fear the worse will be coming soon.
According to state law, we must be separated 1 yr before the D. H's L says that it started on Thanksgiving Day when he walked out. If this is true than I only have 9 months left before the D is final. I have an appointment with an L to verify this. I would think that formal papers would need to be filed expecially since we have a minor child and this is a community property state.
