Help Me Act AS IF, Part 3

[newnamenewlife]

Thanks everyone.
Good to meet you, Purr, and, Grace, you do keep me on my toes!
NG, My D11 is capable of 2 year old tantrums if we ask her to take a shower too!

We've got a whole amusement park's worth of rollercoasters in my house lately.

I haven't heard back from H re: my angry message. He should be home soon. I am completely confused about how to behave in MC. I know anger and pressure backfire and don't get me closer to where I want to be with him, but it's hard to DB in MC. I will try to just listen and validate, I guess. My hurt over some of the things he has said is really bubbling over lately, though. I want him to be accountable and acknowledge what he is doing.