Thanks Mishka. Clearly a huge mistake- my mother has been known to "dramatize" things that never really happened, so I really thought I was doing him a favor. He's never been so vicious, and after the things he said to me I don't know if I want this marriage to be saved or not. I told him essentially that last night and he said it would be stupid, the house would have to be sold, I would end up with nothing. I am calling a lawyer today.
Hope all is ok with you.
Me 39 H 45 T13 M11 D6.5 S4 ILYBNILWY July 07 OW e-mails found 12/15/07 H moved out 3/15/08