Oh, we've been living the roommates thing ever since the whole thing kicked off. She just wants to be roommates until the divorce can be sorted out, its not a situation she wants for any long period of time.

Yeah, I have to worry about who she may or may not decide to bring into her home once she gets her own... On the flipside, W will have to work close to full time to make enough money to pay for her new life, add her hectic gym schedule and I don't see how she will have the time or energy to be going out for a while!

Honestly don't know how W will make enough, there really isn't enough leg room in our current budget to have child support (and we'll be co-parenting if all goes as we have discussed many times) and alimoney to make up for the difference in earning power...

Last night I had another of those wtf?! moments, I was watching something on my laptop when W walked in to "watch" tv with me. Got the comment "should I bother coming to sit here or are we going to watch something else"... W actually thinks she is doing me a favour by sitting on the couch IM'ing away in front of me?

Decided to unsubscribe from W's blog, far too disturbing to keep reading all the entries where she directly or indirectly writes stuff that is disrespectful to myself or our marriage. As a friend of mine said to her recently, W should write what she wants, as long as it doesn't hurt people, W's reply "like who?" and a little later "except for the kids I mean". Nice, kids are an afterthought.


Me: 35
W: 34
S8 & S5
M: 11
IDLY: 08/2007

"Freedom's just another word for nothing left to lose" - Janis Joplin, Me and Bobby McGee

"Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it is about dancing in the rain!"