well she moved out. I did a 180 and instead of staying at home while she moved I went away for 2 days. I just came home to a gutted house. we had counseling today and my W thinks she needs this space so she can heal and mabey reatach. I told her fine. I just wanted to keep everyone up to date. i am just top drained top feel anything right now. muy house is a empty shell and i DONT EVEN KNOE WERE SHE LIVES. but she wants to date...this feels so damn unrealistic.