It's a good sign in the midst of all the chaos that she still makes little steps to have contact with you--checking in, kiss on the way out. I know it must seem so small, but it's something significant I think. I agree with the others...breathe through this and don't ask about moving back into the bedroom. Too soon...she's noticing that you're giving her space and appreciating it--you want her to keep appreciating the things you're doing, right? So, I totally get your desire to want to close the gap, so to speak, but hold the space and keep giving her room. Stay strong BT!!! You can do this!!