I feel like I'm spinning out of control

[mishka422]

(((((KPK))))))

I'm so sorry you have been through this today. I really don't know what to say other than to tell you to pray hard for peace for yourself and mercy for your husband.

I know there's no way to backpedal out of it now but in future don't bring what anyone else has told you into the conversation even if it is with only good intentions. Right now anything you say or do is a threat to him. He's spinning in his own world and bringing up something to him that seems threatening will cause him to spin faster and be more out of control (even though he is seeing his actions as taking control over his life).

Do you have a lawyer? If not, it sounds like you need one, NOW. If your H is threatening to take the children you need someone to go to bat for your rights.

Take a long hot bath, put a cool cloth over your eyes and try to relax.

Hugs and much love to you KPK.