Gonna harp on you for a sec... I know I am not around as much. But I am still around.
She's into you but she's not that into you.....
To a point the "relationship, you did wrong!" stuff has to slow down.
One of my fist points buried somewhere on here was I did not understand the WAW. It has come out on many occasions. Yes, I still don't get it. I understand it but it makes no sense. I have not "been there". Maybe I have felt as much pain.. distance... but just never got there. I have pulled in the driveway and said F**k shes home. It was short lived.
No offense to women intended here..
There is something about a woman that allows her to get to that point. I surely do not understand it at all. But it happens.
It is not wrong. It is just different. DAM will never understand and will always be looking for the "fix" (Justification)
Stop.. Looking for her to come to you. Guess What?... It won't happen. (Thats from way back)
Weird thing is I can see both sides. But at times I have no idea what to do with it. It seems like such a simple problem (From DAM perspective) yet there seems to be no solution.
So lets just lay it out... High points here.
Love.. Bliss.. Marriage.. Drama.... Some more Drama.. Someone wants out. Other Person.... MORE DRAMA....
Ok.... We have the issues at hand. She cheated on you. So... What is it all worth? Trust me I wrestle with this every day. What you did was just as bad. Where does it stop? She knows who you are. Plain and simple fact. You know who she is. Plain and simple fact.
Can BOTH of you let go?????
Sometimes I feel like I can't.. I want to fix it. Sometimes she feels like she can't.. Same old Shi*.
You feeling me yet?
Break the ice slowed you down. You tried it did not work. You know what I say?
Next time when she walks in the door have a bottle of massage oil in hand and drag her upstairs. (Not tied up unless she likes that). Or something that you used to do along those lines.
I will tell you she wants you. She was holding a sign from day #1
Me .. You .. DAM .. Will never be able to fix it. We will never understand it. It is not in us.
To quote someone...
She sees life thru pink sunglasses. Hears thru pink hearing aids. Talks thru a pink megaphone.
We see life thru blue sunglasses. Hear thru blue hearing aids. Talk thru a blue megaphone.
We all (DAM & WAW) have to find the happy medium.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
