I feel like I'm spinning out of control

[KPK]

Thanks for all the advice. I didn't call, and don't talk about her.

Now I'm in another new situation. H and I were working together to put a trial separation agreement in place. Seemed to be going ok, until this past weekend. H talked to my father and his wife about the situation- very good conversation, rational. Then he talked to my mother- not good as my mother can be a bit psycho, she basically insulted him, he told her she didn't care about anything but money, etc... So, I had to deal with her upset and H's anger. Tonight it gets worse. Because of the state of the situation, and knowing my mother's volitile (sp) temper, I told H something she has told me a few times about H being on a porn sight and asking her to watch. Thought I should warn him as she might throw this up if/when they see each other again. Well, he denied it adamently, I believe him, but he took that as me throwing a salvo over, like a threat, to make sure I got what I wanted in the settlement agreement. For the last hour he has done nothing but yell at me about what a horrible mother I am, he's the better parent and could easily take the kids if he wanted, that I'm lazy, an all around bad person, that my mother is a bit&*, and that if we were going to fu*& him, he'd do the same right back. I am in total shock. My eyes are swollen shut from crying. He's never come after me like this before. I was really just trying to warn him, and I now feel completely worthless, and that I could lose my children. Instead of saying in the agreement he won't seek full physical custody, because of what I said he's re-evaluating that promise and will do what;s in the best interest of the kids. He's now taken off. I don't know what to do, can't stop crying.