Sorry, Yes, I meant "not coming back." I was obviously in a hurry and didn't proofread well.
Yes, if she wanted to "try again" and if she has found peace with God and her sexual orientation (three big ifs), I would definitely try it again. From all that I've read and been counseled on, if "one person changes, it changes the whole relationship." I'm willing to be that one person.
Thanks for the advice regarding dating. That makes a lot of sense. I will certainly be on the lookout for that "internal shift." I agree that will be the time to move on and look for someone to date.
May 5 is our anniversary. Do you think that is a good time to have as a "deadline?" If she doesn't come around by then, I'll turn my attention elsewhere and bury the relationship.
What do the rest of you think? Is 3 months enough? (It's already been a year of being "broken up" although I have continued to be a whiny, demanding, b**ch when I have seen her and on the phone, etc.) Or should I wait longer?
