you know frank

there is a reality that she can't escape.

from your posts, it seems that for one

she can't support herself in the manner she demands.

the closer it gets to "D" day, the more she'll back pedal.

my uneducated, un solicited, and probably clueless opinion is:

she wants to eat some cake.

she's done it before, in her mind, she can sink the titanic and good ole frank will pick up the pieces.

she's broke.

you can't fix her

she could have killed Kennedy and you would rationalize it.

this hurts. bad.

you need space. i know only too well the hurt you're going through.

life will end if you don't fix this

your heart will stop pumping blood.

living in the same house must be hell

you're a good man. once you get some seperation, the peacefullness of your actions might finally sink in.

does this possibly make any sense?