Dar,

I hope that you know I do care for you, I wouldn't spend time here if I didn't.

That being said, here is the blunt.

If I am having problems believing you and what you say you will do, and I have only know you a short period of time.

How will your husband, who has known you longer.

Stop being so co-dependant.



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet